Yordan Ivanov

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Here's a very low-stress way to say no

Works even if you hate conflict

Hi


Want to say no without making it a whole thing? Try this:


“Here’s what we’d need to pause to get that done by then. Want to trade?”


You’re not refusing, but inviting a decision.


And they get to choose, which makes it easier for both of you.


Cheers,

Yordan


PS: If you want a full set of phrases like this, they’re in The Data Leader's Influence System.

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